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Pahle Pyar Ke Bare Me Kuch Baatein

Koi bhi college ka apna pahla din, apni pehli salary ya apna pahla……… pyar kabhi ni bhulta hai. Especially aisa tab hota hai jab aapki yaadon me ek magical point ban jata hai aur aapkko us waqt ki yaad aati hai jab baatein simple, achi and happy lagti thi. Is baat se koi farak nahi padta ki hum apni Zindagi me kitne dur nikal aaye hai, Hum use hamesha yaad karte hai jo humen phli baar sach me dil se pasand aaya tha. Hum yhan kuch points share kar rhe hai aap inko padhein aur agr aapko mehsoos ho ki ye 10 points aake liye shi hai to iska matlab hai ki Aapke Dil me aaj bhi unke liye feelings zinda hai aur aap ab bhi unse secretly pyar karte hai..


1. HAR DIN UNKE BARE ME SOCHNA

 

Aap almost har din unke baare me sochte hai. Aap janbujhkar aisa nahi karte hai – Aapki soch ek train ki tarah badhti jati hai or aapko pta hi nahi chalta. Aap apni yaado me soch me itne aage badh jate hai ki apko realize hi ni hota hai ki ye reality nhi hai. Ye jante huye bhi vo aapke saath nhi hai aap unko apne saath imagine karke lambi lambi khaniya bnate hai.

2. SOCIAL NETWORKING SE UNKE BAARE ME SAB JANNE KI KOSISH KARNA

Aksar aap unka Facebook profile khol kar dekhte rhte hai, Aap ye jan-na chahte hai ki kya unko aapka khayal abhi bhi hai ya nahi. Aap apne aap ko feel karwate hai ki aap unke main profile se unse jude huye hai – aur jald hi aap har ek post or photo ke comment ki khudaai karne lag jate hai. Agr aapko galti se bhi unke posts aur comments me aapka jikr mil jaaye to aap ghanton use baar padhte hai aur apne us jikr ko le kar hjaar tarah ki cheezein man me sochte hai.

3. ABHI BHI UNKE SAPNE LENA

Aap abhi bhi aksar der raat tak unke baare me sochte huye khuli aankhon se sapne me rahte hai or jab aap agli subhah jagte hai to confused feel karte hai. Kabhi kabhi jab aap uthte ho to apka sense of direction (disoriented) bigad jata hai or aapko use sambhalne me, aur reality me aane me kuch minute lag jate hai.

4. DUSRE LOVERS KE SATH COMPARE KARNA

 

Aap na chahte hue bhi apne new partners ko apne pahle pyar se compare karte ho. Presently aap apne new relationship se happy ho, but aap kahi na kahi ye jaroor sochte ho ki aap apne pahle relationship se jada khush the. Jab kabhi aap apne new lover se bhut close hote ho tab aapko apne phle pyaar ki yaad achanak aa jaati hai, jo bhi cheez aap abhi kar rhe ho vhi krte huye jo aapki phle pyar se baatein hoti thi vo aapko yaad aane lagti hai.

5. DUBARA MILNE KI EK AMAR AASHA

Aap abhi bhi kahi na kahi yahi sochte hai ki kuch to possibility hai ki hum future me ek sath honge. Dusre logo ko dekh kar koi farak nahi padta, ki hum itne saalo se touch me nhi the – aap sirf mehsoos karne lagte hai ki destiny (kismat) apke aas paas ke chizo ko ek din badal degi.

6. PURANE PLACE KO FEEL KARNA

Un jagahon par jaana aapke liye bhut muskil ho jaata hai jhan aap aksar unke saath jaaya karte the, vha jaane par ya to aapko bahut udaasi mehsoos hoti hai ya phir aap us jagah par uncomfortable mehsoos karte ho – chahe vo sadak ka ek kona ho, ek garden ka koi bench ho ya phir koi coffee shop ho. Jab kabhi bhi aap us jagah ke aas paas hote hai tab khud hi aapke aapnkhon ke saame vo scenes aane lagte hai jab aap apne pyaar ke saath vhan aksar aaya krte the.

7. JANNA SAB CHAHTE HO PAR SHOW NHI KARNA CHAHTE

Jab aap apne common friends se milte ho jise ye nhi pta ki aap abhi bhi apne ex ki care karte ho, uske saamne aap apna face cool show karne ki kosish karte ho jaise ki  ` Haan sab theek hai` but andar se aap bas unke baare me hi sun-na chahte ho, aap bina ye dkhaye ki aap unke baare me jan-na chahte ho dil hi dil umeed karte ho ki aapka common friend aapko jada se jada unke baare me btaye. But agar aapka friend apki feelings ke bare me janta hai to, aap cool face ka mukhote ko chod kar shikari kutte ki tarh har chotti details par jhapat padte ho.

8. PURANI YAADO KI RAATE

Aapko lagta hai ki yeh sahi agar aap apni puri sham unki yaddon me akele drink karke ya phir song sun ke bitaye. Aap baar baar vahi song sunna pasand karte ho jo ki aap dono ko pasand thi ya vo song jo aapko unki yaad dilati ho aur aapke life ke situations ko btati ho.

9. UNKA AAGE BADH JAANA

Yeh baat bahut dukh deti hai jab aapko pta chalta hi ki vo apni life me aage badh chuki hai – unki engagement ya marriage ho chuki hai. Iske baad bhi, agar aap abhi bhi yahi soch rahe ho ki vo kabhi na kabhi aapko mil jayegi to, aap bahut badi musibat me ho.

10. HAR CHOTI BAATO KO YAAD KARNA

Sabse important baat, Jab aap pahli baar unse mile tab aapko kaisa feel hua tha ye sab deeply yaad karte hai. Or aisa feel hota bhi hai kiuki yeh vo feelings hai jo ki aapne first time feel ki thi…….. or sab teenage hormones hai, but agar aap bahut saalo baad bhi yahi feelings deeply feel karte hai to aap abhi bhi apne love mate ko bahut pyar karte hai.

Umeed karti hoon ki maeeri in Tips se aapko kfi help milegi. Agar aapka koi bhi sawal ho aap comment section mein comment karke pooch sakte ho. Mujhe aapke sawalo ka intezaar rahega.

Pahle Pyar Ke Bare Me Kuch Baatein Pahle Pyar Ke Bare Me Kuch Baatein Reviewed by Gourab Das on July 16, 2020 Rating: 5

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