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Ladki Apse baat kyu Nahi Karti

Kuch din pahle mujhse kisi ne pucha ki main ek ladki ko like karta hu aur main usse baat karna chahta hu par wo mujhse baat nahi karti. Aisa kya karu jisse wo mujhse baat kare aur meri feelings ko samajh sake. Aisa tabhi hota hai jab hum kisi ko bahut like karte hai aur usse baat karna chahte hai aur usko apne dil ki feelings ko samjhana chahte hai par wo hume ignore karti hai. Ye kafi difficult hota hai ki agar hum jise like karte hai aur fir wo humse baat bhi na kare. To aaj main aapke liye isi pareshani ka smadhan lekar aayin hoon.

USKO JAANNE KI TRY KARO

Bhut Kosish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti
Bahut Koshish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti
  • Is situation me hume khud par bharosa rakhna chahiye. Kyunki kai baar aisi situation me kaafi time lag jata hai. Ladki ki apni koi personal problem bhi ho sakti hai, ya us par kisi cheez ka burden bhi ho sakta hai, ya ho sakta hai wo bhi aapse baat karna chahti ho par wo darti ho, Apni family se darti ho ya aas-paas ke logo se darti ho, ki log kya kahenge, badnaami se darti ho. Aisi kai cheeze hai jinki wajah se ladki baat nahi karti ya kar nahi pati.
  • Ho sakta hai wo pahle se hi commited ho kisi ke sath aur wo aise apne relation ko expose bhi nahi karna chahti ho. Shayad aapko wo isliye bhi na bata rahi ho ki kahi aapko bura naa feel ho. Ho sakta hai usko aapki koi aisi baat pata ho jisse wo aapko like nahi karti ya aapka behaviour usko pasand naa ho ya aapka koi kaam ho jo pasand naa karti ho. Aisa kuch bhi ho sakta hai.

USKE FRIENDS SE BAAT KARO

Bhut Kosish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti
Bahut Koshish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti

Agar aap usse baat karna chahte ho to sabse phale aapko ye jaanne ki try karna hoga ki aisi konsi problem hai ya aisi konsi baat hai jiski wajah se wo baat nahi kar rahi. Aapko ye sab jaanne ke liye uske best friends se friendship karni hogi, after all best friend ko hi sab kuch pata hota hai. Jab aap uski best friend se dosti kar loge aur aap usko trust dilaoge ki aap bhi trust ke layak ho tabhi wo aapko uske bare me btayegi. Aas-paas ke atmosphere se pata lgao uske living area ka, uske family ka ya khud uske bare me ki wo kaisi ladki hai kya pasand karti hai, kya nahi pasand karti aur abhi uska relation status kya hai.

KAHI WO ALREADY COMMITTED TO  NAHI

Bhut Kosish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti
Bahut Koshish Karta Hu Par Ladki Baat Nhi Karti

Agar wo already relation me hai to simple si baat hai ki wo kyun aapse baat nahi kar rahi. Agar aap sach me usko pyar karte ho to uski happiness ke liye aisi situation me aapko khud usse dur ho jana chahiye, usko bhul kar apni life ko aage jina chahiye. Agar aap tab bhi interfere karoge to naa aap khush reh paoge naa hi wo reh payegi aur ho sakta hai wo aapse nafarat bhi karne lag jaye. But aap fir bhi usse baat karna chahte ho to usko just as a friend bnao aur ye bhi btao ki aap usko like karte ho but ‘hum as a friend rahenge aur agar koi bhi problem aye to mai tumahri help ke liye ever ready hu’.

YA KOI DUSARI BAAT HO

Koi dusari baat hai to pahle aap uski us problem ko samjho. Aur aapko pata hai, aapko uski ye problem uski friend se hi pata chalegi. So, pahle aapko uski friend ka friend banna hai fir uske through uski problem janne ki try karo. Uski jo bhi problem hogi jiski wajah se wo aaapke sath aisa behave kar rahi hai to aapko usme uski help karni hogi aur usko trust dilana hoga ki aap uske liye humesha present rahoge. May be agar aap dono friend ban jate hai to aapko khud bhi wo apni problem bata sakti hai. Ye bhi ho sakta hai ki wo aapko samjhne bhi lag jaye.

So, friends agar aap jisse pyar karte hai aur wo aapse baat nahi karna chahti to aapko kis situation ko kaise face karna hai ye janna bahut jaruri hai and I hope aapko isse kafi help bhi mili hogi. Aisi situation me aap uska aise hi sath denge to wo aap se jarur baat karegi. Aur koi bhi problem aapko aati hai to mujhse share jaroor karien.

Dosto mera Youtube channel bhi hai aap usey bhi dekh sakte ho I am sure aapko usse bhi bahut madad milegi.

Ladki Apse baat kyu Nahi Karti Ladki Apse baat kyu Nahi Karti Reviewed by Gourab Das on July 15, 2020 Rating: 5

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